What We’re Really Building at Three Cities Social

We get asked all the time: What kind of club is this?

It’s not a networking group. It’s not a co-working space. It’s not a party scene either.

Three Cities is something different. What we’re really building is a space where people feel like they belong. Where showing up alone isn’t awkward. Where the relationships go deeper than surface-level. And where your social life doesn’t depend on an app, an algorithm, or a curated highlight reel.

We believe that adult friendships don’t have to be so hard. But they do need the right conditions: consistent space, shared values, and people who are actually open to meeting others. That’s what we provide.

When someone joins, they’re not signing up for one-off events. They’re joining a rhythm. A community. A third place to be known.

Why We Keep It Small

We cap membership for a reason. Our goal isn’t to be everywhere—it’s to be real where we are. When the space gets too big, the conversations change. You stop making eye contact. You stop introducing yourself. That’s not what we want.

Why We’re BYOB

We don’t want you to feel pressure to buy overpriced drinks. Bring what you like. Share it with someone. The environment becomes less about transactions and more about trust.

Why It Works

Because we’re intentional about the vibe. Because we listen to members. Because we’re not chasing virality—we’re focused on building something that lasts.

We don’t need to be for everyone. But if you’ve been looking for something that feels real, you’re in the right place.